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Tuesday, July 28, 2015

#Destiny



Motivate yourselves .. Be motivated !

- Pebble$ x 



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Tuesday, July 14, 2015

The Changes ..



Life is an interesting ride, a journey, a set of stairs taken to your final destination BUT no where in the contract of life did it say things would be easy or the ride smooth, rather it stated that we find ourselves, learn, enrich our existence and in finding ourselves discover each other. If you need to find yourself that means you must be ready to educate yourself on value, principles, positivity and building. If you do not grasp the fundamentals of building yourself you will never be able to help another to build and consequently will be left hindered in your ability to help in building the world around you. 

I find fulfilment in knowing that I have someone to talk to, people to talk to and laugh with. There is no space for a void when you occupy your time and worth with building, within building sometimes your hands won't be at work it will be your mind learning and being educated! Progression will follow when you find that you are constantly seeking to improve the vessel known as YOU, mastering that means you'll have no trouble with sharing what you have gained with others. You go through your own things in life to be a mentor to those who will go through something similar in life. 

Taking in the experience of the journey is so important, even more than getting to the finish line. When you focus on the image of the complete you (the you, you want to see, the man/woman you wish you were, the place you wish you were at in life, wishing you had achieved that dream or goal by now etc. etc.) you forget to enjoy the trips, the stumbles, the boos boos, the tears, the laughter, the rises and the falls. Missing out these "minor" events are very dangerous in your walk as a human, as an individual in this thing we call the 'human race'. Blotting your mind out to the failures/negatives leaves huge gaps in your history which means that for those periods of time you have nothing to prove your existence so you were just in gaseous exchange & excretion mode and not existing. 

I won't come at you with all this without admitting that I take time to reflect sometimes and realize I've spent too much of my life blotting out 'minor details' and horrible experiences. My saving grace at intervals is being reminded that I was a pretty cool kid despite my unhappiness. Yes, I have been bullied for most of my life and hated on, I still get hated on but we as individuals can't be stuck at that bus stop you have to keep it moving define your destination and let it be anywhere that does not enable you to somehow come back here. Move on! 

As life progresses, you may bring yourself to the confidence of moving on and you'll make a lifestyle out of building and contributing to the growth of YOU; and you will count all experiences good or bad in your journey to those goals and dreams. Good! Now you have found yourself but why are you experiencing the same problems, or so you think but you are not. Over the course of this life you experience new levels and new kinds of problems, the issues that you face change as they realize your graduation throughout life. Many times we think we are alone in facing these problems until we realize we can involve others to help us through. And yes we are the only one until we realize how many other people are going through or have gone through those same experiences.

We don't realize and can't seem to see how much easier our struggle(s) could be, if only we decided to seek the counsel of those who have already been through those tests, trials, tribulations, pains, etc. name them 
my ragazze, my ragazzi!

As you face your challenges daily, do me one favor and count your blessings one by one .. seeing, eating without aid, breathing, walking by yourself, the ability to run, to talk, to hear. You don't take these things into account because you are putting those who can't down, but to show that you are appreciative of those things which you possess and most often take for granted !


Love You All ..

Pebble$


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Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Doing What You Doing ..

Hey World.



It's been a minute since I have engaged with you and given you any updates. I can't believe it has been three years (passed that milestone on June 8th, 2015) that I've been blogging. It has been real nice doing it, it's been a journey of its own. I'm really grateful to my family, my friends, people who just got to know me through the camera or through my blog first because some people followed me on Google+ before I realized every post I was making, I was sharing with only myself. I don't know how that setting got there but a year later is when I made this discovery, maybe that's the reason why many people could not find me in the first year. 


If you follow me on Google+ you will notice that most of my posts have been music, only because I'm slowly easing back into it - with all my social media. Music is one thing that I love so I thought, what a better time to share it while I'm deciding on what I want to present and record.


But hey! This post is not about me making excuses so let me get back to my main focus, however have you had the chance to check out my Open Mic.







If you have been wondering I have been good, I have been well. Back in January me and my immune system had a little argument which cause a cold sore (my second cold sore stressing-myself-related) and this occurred because I was thinking and overthinking .. working, being hard on myself. So my immune system decided to conversate and tell me I was being hard on myself and that's why I got that cold sore. Stressing myself, not time stress but putting myself under stress because I wasn't where I wanted to be. So, I want to take this chance to encourage everybody that no matter what stage of your dream, or on the road to your dream that you are at .. You will get there eventually, You can get there and You will get there! How hard are you willing to work for it though ?!


There are few things I have read these past few months which I will share with you.



First one, "Yes society brings oppression and sometimes that society is you who oppresses yourself." 
This little bit of knowledge literally means that yes society is responsible for oppression because they are the ones 
to build then destroy the ideal .. see it favors them one time and they be like 'ouu this look good for now' then they change their minds later and decide today we ain't feeling that ! 



So the rest of y'all who killed yourselves because you didn't meet the previous standard might have lived through the new standard or the new ideal that society may have going on. This leads into "A double-minded man is unstable, for his mind is everywhere ..". If you don't know who the freak you is, anybody and everybody will tell you who they think you are, so you need to know about yourself. You need to realize that no matter what anybody else tells you, no matter what you have told yourself about yourself in the past you are an amazing human being, you are an purposeful individual .. I'm not going to say unique (Pebble$ gon get ya !!).



It depends on how you perceive unique, if your unique is being this way today, being this person today and that person tomorrow dependent on what changes in society they you have not yet found your Uniché, yeah I'll make that a word. Who is supposed to be in Uniché .. YOU are supposed to be in Uniché. A niche is a place of comfort, a place where you excel it is where it doesn't matter what anybody says to you, you know you are the best and you tell them this is my Uniché !




You need to find your niche, your niche is your unique place .. your unique selling point like they say in business. What is so amazing about you that I want to invest time and space allowing you to speak your positivity into the room that I'm in, to speak your positivity into my mind. To allow the sound waves from your words and your mouth to get into my ears .. Are you really worth my time? If the answer is Yes I will continue listening if not there is an X button in the corner of the screen you can click that ish out !




So that is how we get to the point of Uniché, you have to be comfortable in the way you are and in this case you should be a single-minded man or woman. A man of one mind, one body, one spirit and soul. Everything should be in harmony everything should be in syncytium just like the heart, they are supposed to work as one. You are supposed to have a level of awareness and consciousness that allows you to be the best that you can be, to 
operate at the best level of YOU as the best version of you ..day in, day out !




When you find Uniché it's going to be very hard for anything or anyone to depress you because you know that who determines your happiness is you. So if you decide that today 'I'm not feeling so good but I will try', let it be because of YOU not because of somebody else telling you stuff or doing stuff.




Next one, "Anyone who does what they love will always look good doing what they are doing while 
doing what they are doing." I spoke to a homeboy of mine a few weeks back, I might have told him this or I wished I had remembered at that point in time to tell him that he needs to find what he loves doing then he will do what he loves. Only because it's hard enough not knowing how exactly you'll go about finding what you love doing, what you were created in this life to do then you have the pressure of parents on top of it. Sometimes or actually a few times you think, how are my parents gonna perceive me? what will they say? I got an older sibling who is doing this so how am I going to go about it? You just have to try and find a way to make sure you try to do something right while you're trying to tell them "Yo mom and pops, I really want to go this way but you know I tried my hand at this and I gave it my best and it's not working out or it worked out but this ain't where I find fulfillment". With that any wise parent would sit down sit back and think, where would my child best excel let me take in their suggestions or he's told me best on how I could help him out/ help her out.




You got to be real cerebral to get this one "Faithless men come as the opposition to your success, they do nothing less than destroy faith and fix fate." let me explain that to you. You want to succeed in life, right? I don't know any person who doesn't want to succeed and, the faithless man - is the 'friends' around you who say 
"Girl you can never do that", "Hey man, you really think you can do that .. do you know where you coming from" 
or "What's your basis though, you don't have no foundation where you going?". So you then have to tell yourself, 
there are people who have hit rock bottom, people who started with zero that own a lot; I am not them BUT they 
are examples of what hard work does, and what determination does when you want to succeed. If you want to succeed .. you will ! I have a lot of people who tell me " Yo Pebble$ it's easy to say that man, but in reality is it 
really like that? and I have to be honest, I don't know where your coming from because... I always tell you guys don't say you understand what somebody is going through unless you have been through it.




For example, 1- somebody comes to me to say I've lost a sibling who was supposed to be born but I never got to meet them, I can relate and I can understand because 'In The Moment Of Now' is dedicated to my little sister who I never got to meet.) 


2- If somebody told me about a miscarriage or something else my approach would be "No I cannot identify with you BUT I can comfort you because I haven't been through that".

3- Somebody says they have hit rock bottom before, I cannot truly say I have hit rock bottom, rock rock bottom. I have hit rock bottom to a level but everybody's rock bottom is different, some folks rock bottoms are softer than others. When you realize how they hit rock bottom and what your rock bottom looks like you will be like "Yup you stronger than me, we both hit rock bottom and much respect to our individual rock bottoms but it impacted us in different ways."

" You will not realize how hitting a rock bottom feels for some folks but you will come to understand that it impacts us in different ways, in different aspects of our lives, the ways that we think afterwards, the way that we relate and things like      that ! "

I hope you all enjoyed that, thank you for your support ! 
       - Pebble$ x


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Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Motivation #1




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Monday, June 8, 2015

#Life





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Tuesday, April 28, 2015

King . Wife . Noble Character .






Listen, son! Listen son of my womb!
Listen, my son, answer to my prayers!
Do not spend your strength on women,
Or your vigor on those who ruin kings 
It is not for kings, it is not for kings to drink wine 
Nor for rulers to crave beer,
Lest they drink and forget what has been they decreed
And deprive all the oppressed of their rights.
Let beer be for those who are perishing,
Wine for those who are in anguish!
Let them drink and forget their poverty
And remember their misery no more.
Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, 
For the rights of all who are destitute.
Speak up and judge fairly,
Defend the rights of the poor and needy. 

A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies 
Her husband has full confidence in her 
And lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm
All the days of her life
She works with eager hands. 
She is like the merchant ships, 
Bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still night;
She provides food for her family 
And portions for her helpers  
She considers a field and buys it;
Out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously;
Her arms are strong from her tasks.

She sees that her trading is profitable, 
And her lamp does not go out at night.
She opens her arms to the poor
And extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household,
For all of them are clothed in scarlet 
She makes covering for her bed,
She is clothed in fine linen and respect
Her husband is respected at the city gate,
Where he takes his seat amongst the wise.
She is clothed with strength and dignity 
She can laugh at the days to come.

She speaks with wisdom, 
And faithful instruction is on her tongue 
She watches over the affairs of her household
And does not eat the bread of idleness 
Her children grow and called her blessed;
Her husband also, and he praises her:

" Many woman do noble things, but you surpass them all "

Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting;
But a woman who stands for greater and fears the Lord 
Is to be praised 
Honor her for all that her hands have done. 

First have a relationship with yourself, have a desire to have the above qualities as a woman .. you need to 
stand out in this life no matter what you do. If you're going to do something, be the best that you 
can be at that thing .. those things. Be encouraged !!

.. Pebble$ ..

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Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Happy New Year To Mee .. !





See! God always works things out He doesn't always explain himself but He sure does reveal Himself in every situation and all important steps on the way.


Check out this post by a fellow blogger who has become a big sister to me which explains why I said what I just said. 

Just check out the post through the link below:  





HAVE A BEAUTIFUL WEDNESDAY !!


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